How to be happy in love & life?

Building a great relationship leads to an amazing life!

You deserve this love, you are more than worthy, and you are ready.

Discover how ready you are for real love and that amazing relationship, and explore my expertise!

Are you tired of losing out in love?
Are you fed up choosing relationships that don’t work?

01.

RECYCLING
RELATIONSHIPS?

You notice yourself repeating the same relationship over and over again – different face, same experience.

02.

DATING YOUR
DAD?

You are done dating men who painfully remind you of your Dad.

03.

NO CHOICES
LEFT?

You are tired of the poor quality of swiping and dating choices.

04.

SCARED OF MAKING A MISTAKE?

You are afraid to commit and waste time in another bad relationship.

05.

STILL STUCK ON YOUR EX?

Are you still feeling enmeshed with your ex, uncertain how you disentangle or let go, and not even sure if you want to?

How I help you love better

— 01

One-on-One
Counseling

Deep dive private guidance and support to help you heal your heart, rewrite your future so you can attract an amazing relationship

— 02

Online
Courses

Self-guided and immersive support helping you create your vision and attraction for the love you desire, with optional coaching

— 03

Group Programs

Be first in line for the launch of my group masterclasses designed to inspire and empower you and your heart.

You deserve an amazing relationship, and I will help you get there.

Barry Selby

About Barry

I am your guide to help you heal your heart and love freely again.

Barry helps women move from heart-break grief to whole-hearted grace. He is a passionate champion for the divine feminine, helping strong successful women create balance in love, life and business.

He is dedicated to disrupting the codependent patterns people fall victim to, so they can thrive in life, and enjoy healthier relationships.

Barry is affectionately called the Love Doctor by his clients and friends, He is a bestselling author, a spiritual guide, a sought-after inspirational speaker, and a wise & compassionate relationship attraction expert.

He helps his clients create a profound relationship WITH themselves, so they attract a profound and passionate relationship FOR themselves!

His clients own and express their feminine magnificence in love, and in the world.

His #1 best-selling book – 50 Ways To Love Your Lover – is a comprehensive how-to guide for couples and singles, men and women, delivering 50 powerful principles for passionate and richly rewarding relationships.

With over 35 years of training and experience, including a master’s degree in Spiritual Psychology, and over 20 years as a spiritual counselor, he has helped thousands learn to love themselves and live in wholeness.

Happy Clients

Clients’ words

5/5
"Barry got me to a place where I saw I could let go of circumstances and the pressure to figure everything out. The result was an invitation to the ultimate journey of self-love where going inward is priority over reacting outward. Even before changing an external thing, I am able to find clarity and gratitude exactly where I am."
- NOREEN J.
5/5
"Barry had a profound impact on my life when he was my guide. I have known him for many years and find his insight and wisdom to be centered in Truth — timeless and eternal. Thank you!"
- Michelle s.
5/5
"Barry has a strong masculine presence and is able to offer his strength and support sometimes without even a word needing to be spoken. The space he holds is more than enough."
- EMUNAH M.
5/5
"Barry epitomizes the perfect blend of practical, spiritual, tangible and the intangible in relation to coaching. He comes from a gentle, loving, and friendly spirit that really speaks to women and allowed me to open up to him in a way as if I've known him forever. He is an attentive listener, and the insights he offered gave me real ways to redirect my energies. He helped me realize how to control only the things that I could control and to release that was merely holding me prisioner (when I didn't even realize it was). He has certainly impacted my journey, and I am confident there are countless more who will be blessed to have Barry impact theirs."
- TAMMY G.
5/5
"Barry your knowledge and understanding and insight were simply incredible! Thank you! I truly benefited from your unique insight and perspective...God Bless you!"
- KEVIN H.